Oct 27, 2022
In General Discussions
I'm just struggling a bit with decision-making right now and could use some advice. Fog of divorce, I think. I was a housewife and moved with my children after a separation almost two years ago, first to a relative's house to save money, and then to my own house. It has a yard and swings and we were able to get a pet. I was very happy and excited that I was able to give my children a good place in "mom's house". We've been living here for a year now, and the problem is that this house requires too much maintenance from me, physically, and I don't know, emotionally, maybe? I'm thinking about moving to an apartment where maintenance isn't on me. The rent will be about the same as my rent for the house, but I won't have any additional maintenance costs. I'm worried that another move will be too much for my kids, they've had to move twice already, and I tell myself I just have to get over it and make it work here. My divorce https://onlinedivorcer.com/blog/how-to-tell-if-your-husband-is-cheating is still pending so I'm also worried about looking like a parent who moves too much.